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Where Softness Meets Strength

Transformational Coaching
&
Reflective Counselling

At Stillpoint, we believe the most profound shifts happen not through force, but through presence. We believe in the possibility of change · but we respect you enough not to do it for you. Our role is to hold a space where transformation is possible, but never forced. Where truth emerges quietly, and insight lands with a quiet power.

Begin the Journey

Gentle.

No self-bullying. No hustle. Just a compassionate pause to see what is true.

Internal.

The answers aren't out there. We look inward to reconnect with your own wisdom.

Power.

From this stillness, your authentic strength emerges · clear, grounded, and sustainable.

About Me

Clarity. Direction. Your move.

I'm not here to fix you. I'm here to help you see what's actually in front of you · and what you can do about it. I value truth, directness, and the quiet power of an insight that shifts everything. My work is for people who are ready to move, even if they don't yet know where to step.

How I Work

I offer new ways of thinking, not emotional hand-holding. I bring clarity where there's fog · zooming out, reframing, expanding your view of what's possible. I enjoy seeing someone take a new insight and change something tangible in their life. That's the real work.

This isn't open-ended therapy. It's a purposeful, collaborative process: we identify what's keeping you stuck, challenge the patterns that no longer serve you, and build practical steps forward.

My Motivation

I'm drawn to the moment someone sees their situation differently · not because I gave them the answer, but because I held up a mirror that reflected something they hadn't noticed before. Helping people connect the dots, zoom out, and realise they have more options than they thought is deeply satisfying.

Background & Training

I've been working with individuals for over 20 years. My foundation is academic, but my experience is deeply practical.

  • Honours Degree in Psychology
  • Therapeutic Play Skills Diploma, Play Therapy International, UK
  • 20+ years counselling individuals through:
    Relationship challenges (individuals and couples) · Life transitions, crisis, and stuckness · Personal growth and self-understanding
the quiet Power of insight landing

Services & Approach

Here's what you can expect:

Clarity over Catharsis

While emotions are always welcome, our focus will be on understanding the story behind them. We'll work to zoom out and see the bigger picture, reframing challenges so you can move from feeling overwhelmed to feeling empowered.

Perspective-Building

I will offer you new ways of thinking about your situation. Think of me as a thinking partner. I'll ask questions that challenge your assumptions and help you see the blind spots that have been keeping you stuck.

Real-World Application

Insight is powerful, but action is transformative. We won't just talk about change; we'll build a plan for it. The goal is to take what we discuss and apply it to your life.

A Space for Realness

This is a judgment-free zone. I value directness and honesty. My role is to be a calm, steady presence who isn't afraid to gently challenge you, hold up a mirror, and help you find your own way forward.

Individual Sessions

One-on-one work for people who want clarity, direction, and a practical way forward. These sessions are tailored to you · your situation, your goals, your pace.

What we can focus on:

  • Grief and loss
  • Navigating divorce or separation
  • Improving communication skills
  • Setting and holding healthy boundaries
  • Anger management
  • Conflict resolution (in relationships, family, or work)
  • Mindfulness and stress reduction
  • Women's self-confidence and self-worth
  • Life transitions and feeling stuck
  • Infidelity and trust issues (for individuals)
This list isn't exhaustive. If what you're dealing with isn't here, just ask · chances are we've worked with something similar.
Gentle. Internal. Power.

Session Packages

Single Session

$75 / R1,400

An introductory session to get a feel for how we work together.

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4-Session Package

$270 / R5,000

A short-term focus on a specific issue or goal. Save $30.

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8-Session Package

$510 / R9,500

A deeper engagement for more sustained change. Save $90.

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All sessions are 50 minutes, conducted online. Payment upfront at time of booking. Packages are priced with a slight discount over single sessions.

Have questions about sessions, packages, or how it all works?

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Workbooks & Resources

Many people find it useful to pair sessions with focused written resources. I've created workbooks to help you deepen the work between sessions.

Relationships

Breaking unhealthy patterns & communication cycles

A guided workbook to help you see the patterns that keep repeating in your relationships · and begin to shift them from the inside out.

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Boundaries & Self-Worth

Overgiving, saying no, losing yourself

For those who give too much and ask too little of themselves. This workbook helps you reconnect with your own needs and learn to hold your ground with compassion.

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Emotional Awareness

Anger, overwhelm, triggers

A practical guide to understanding your inner reactions · not to suppress them, but to meet them with clarity and use them as information rather than letting them drive you.

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Letting Go & Transitions

Divorce, endings, identity shifts

When life changes and you're not sure who you are anymore. This workbook walks you through loss, identity, and finding solid ground on the other side.

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Book a Session

Ready to start? Select your package or a single session below. Payment is handled securely through Stripe.

Before booking, we recommend reading the FAQ so you know exactly what to expect.

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Free · 20 minutes

Shall We Sit Together?

A gentle, no-obligation conversation to see if we're a good fit.

$75 · 50 minutes

The Stillpoint Journey

One-on-one session for clarity, direction and practical steps forward.

Payment via Wise is requested after booking confirmation.

Note: If you don't see a time that works, feel free to reach out using the contact form · I'll do my best to accommodate.

Sessions are 50 minutes, conducted online. We typically begin with a commitment to a set number of sessions to create momentum.

Once a package is completed, we can discuss whether to continue on a new package or move to a more flexible arrangement.

Get in Touch

If you'd prefer to ask a question before booking, fill out the form below. I'll respond within 24 hours.

What Clients Say

Real words from real people.

"

Karin has a rare gift for holding space without judgement. She helped me see my situation from a completely different angle · and that shift changed everything.

· Client, South Africa

"

Working with Karin gave me clarity I hadn't been able to find on my own. She asks the right questions and trusts you to find your own answers. That's rare.

· Professional Reference

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More testimonials coming soon as the practice grows...

· Coming soon

Frequently Asked Questions

Everything you need to know before you begin.

Sessions & Format
Sessions are 50 minutes, conducted online via a secure video platform.
We'll schedule sessions weekly. Consistency helps build momentum.
I use a secure video platform. A link will be sent after booking.
Packages & Payment
You can start with a single session to see if we're a good fit. After that, most clients find packages (4 or 8 sessions) more effective for making lasting change.
Payment is upfront via Stripe (credit card or debit card). You'll pay when you book.
All sales are final. If you decide to stop after using part of a package, the remaining sessions are not refunded. I recommend starting with a single session if you're unsure about committing to a package.
Cancellation & Commitment
When we agree to work together, I reserve that weekly time slot for you.
  • Rescheduling with 48+ hours' notice: I'll do my best to find an alternative time within the same week.
  • Cancelling with less than 48 hours' notice: The session is forfeited and not refundable, unless in exceptional circumstances.
  • No-show: The session is non-refundable.
Real change doesn't happen in isolated conversations. Weekly sessions create the rhythm and accountability that help insights turn into lasting shifts in behaviour. The package structure reflects that approach.
Other
Currently, all sessions are online. This allows flexibility and access regardless of location.
You can use the contact form on the Book & Contact page. I'll respond within 24 hours.
No. I work exclusively with individuals, including those who want to navigate relationship challenges on their own.

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